Let's face it, as the growing popularity of internet use rises so does the innumerable consequences, websites, and stature of people who would otherwise be deemed as "a nobody" (like most are) in the actual world. Do you want to be friends with someone? Well, you could go out the old-fashioned way and start a simple conversation and hope not to get rejected. However, if you play it smart the best option would be to stay home (in your pajamas) and log onto famous social networking sites such as MySpace and Facebook - even video sharing sites such as YouTube. Why? There isn't a need to ask such a question because the answer has been obvious the entire time. Efficiency. Just take a look at me; I have more than 1,000+ friends on YouTube. Is such a feat possible in the actual world? Only if you're a celebrity with many connections! People who are " a nobody" are meeting others like themselves which constitutes for this endless cycle of happiness. Yet, those who break away from this cycle are doing it so for more power and attention because they are definitely not receiving much in their own lives. We like to call them losers . These people tend to be administrators or moderators of certain websites (not going to get detailed here) that love to set limits, rules, and just have overall authority over you. Feeding their insatiable craving for "someone to listen to me, pay attention to me," these people only expand their reputation of whatever they are set out to be. Basically, these losers transform into complete a****. However, the creators of these blog postings and the websites themselves are found to be the opposite of the people they put in charge. Can this really be? It has to. In order to attract people to their (whatever) need they have to act accordingly to set norms which means to act normally. At the end of the day, these losers receive what they set out for; however, in return all they get in the actual and virtual world is a friend request being denied.